Having taken on the role of PCC secretary, my focus was on the content of the AGM. Rather belatedly I discovered my failure in displaying a vital notice on the church door by the correct date. To my 'I have messed up', John's immediate response was 'Join the club.' There are so many other memories: his concern for our family when life was difficult, his humour which put things into perspective, and his disregard for anything which was unhelpful. I am so grateful to John and Thelma for their kindness, gentleness and encouragement.