Dear Joy and Ray.
Your parents were such wonderful friends and mentors to us throughout our lives.In our eyes they were the perfect clergy team.Our time in London was a wonderful time for us and we learnt so much from them.Just after my ordination my mother died of cancer. Your parents visited her and your dad spoke at her funeral. After a year bought my first car and needed to pass the test and your dad took me out on a number of occasions; a true test of friendship.Your parents visited us in every parish we served both in the UK and in America.They offered us hospitality on many occasions throughout the years.
They visited us in Virginia and celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary with us
and they visited us in New Mexico.
John was a true visionary and we were excited about his work with Emmanuel.
We are so glad for them that they are now reunited in the glory of Heaven and in the Presence of their glorious Lord whom they served so well.
With much love in the Lord. Brian and Mary.
Brian & Mary Hobden
26th June 2024
Having taken on the role of PCC secretary, my focus was on the content of the AGM. Rather belatedly I discovered my failure in displaying a vital notice on the church door by the correct date. To my 'I have messed up', John's immediate response was 'Join the club.'
There are so many other memories: his concern for our family when life was difficult, his humour which put things into perspective, and his disregard for anything which was unhelpful. I am so grateful to John and Thelma for their kindness, gentleness and encouragement.
Helen Whitley
25th June 2024
I remember Thelma and John being very hospitable. Church meetings were often held at the vicarage. I will never forget that they invited our family ( six of us!) to lunch one Sunday when we were going through a difficult patch. Typical of their pastoral caring. John had innovative ideas, changing the pews and stone floor to carpet and chairs! A much more user friendly space to this day! John was an inspirational preacher. He had a vision for the mission field at home and abroad. He will never be forgotten at Christ Church, Purely!
Jill Lindsey
24th June 2024